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Wednesday, September 16, 2026

Book Review #13: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict

 ★★★★★

Honest, practical, and clearly written from experience
I really appreciated how real this book felt. You can tell Ted Manby isn’t writing about church conflict as some abstract topic. A lot of what he shares comes from actually living through difficult situations, and that made the book feel much more personal to me. I especially liked the way he separates normal disagreement from the kind of conflict that becomes destructive, because I think that’s an important distinction that can easily get missed. The biblical focus is also a big part of what makes the book useful. There’s a lot here about forgiveness, courage, handling difficult people, protecting your ministry, and staying grounded when things around you are falling apart. I also liked that the book didn’t pretend conflict is easy or painless. At times, I felt some sections went on a little longer than necessary, and there were places where the amount of quoted material slowed me down. But overall, I came away feeling like this was written to genuinely help pastors who may be going through something painful and don’t know where to start.
Samuel

Book Review #12: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict

 ★★★★★

Insightful and Practical Guide for Leadership
A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict" by Ted D. Manby is a remarkably practical and thoughtful resource for anyone navigating relational dynamics within a ministry or community setting. Across its 146 pages, the book tackles difficult yet essential topics such as handling church antagonists, addressing clergy abuse, and learning how to embrace positive conflict. What stands out most is the author's grounded approach to biblical forgiveness—it offers actionable strategies rather than just theoretical advice. It helps readers view conflict not merely as a setback, but as an opportunity for constructive growth and deeper understanding. The writing is clear, empathetic, and structured logically, making it an easy yet impactful read. I highly recommend this guide to pastors, ministry leaders, and church members looking to foster healthier, more resilient communities.
Tuba

Thursday, August 13, 2026

Book Review #11: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict

 ★★★★☆

The field manual I wish someone had handed me before my first church conflict
This is not a book written from a distance. Ted Manby has been in the fight, and it shows on every page. Twenty years of pastoral ministry across multiple congregations, including ones with histories of terminating pastors, gives him a credibility that no amount of seminary theory can substitute for. When he describes the specific tactics of church antagonists, the isolation of a pastor under attack, and the institutional failures that leave hurting leaders abandoned, he's not speculating. He's remembering. The book's greatest strength is its honesty about how bad things can actually get. Manby doesn't sugarcoat the reality that some people in the pew are not simply difficult but are actively destructive, and he draws a clear, useful line between reasonable conflict that helps a church grow and the kind of antagonism that is designed to destroy a pastor's ministry and family. The diagnostic questions in Chapter 4 alone are worth the price of the book, giving leaders a practical framework for identifying what they're dealing with before it's too late. The chapter on personal experiences is raw and specific enough to feel like a conversation rather than a lecture. You can sense the years it took to process those wounds and the hard-won wisdom that came from them. The acknowledgment of his own bitterness and blind spots keeps the book from ever feeling self-righteous. What sets this apart from other church conflict resources is the practical machinery. The DOM policy proposal in the appendix, the steps of church discipline, the section on how associational leaders often fail the pastors they're supposed to protect, these are the specific, actionable pieces that most books in this space avoid because they're politically uncomfortable. Manby goes there anyway. The biblical survey of antagonistic figures is thorough and well-organized, connecting each example to a principle that applies directly to modern church dynamics. The repeated emphasis on courage as the essential virtue, not just spiritual maturity but actual bravery in the face of personal attack, is refreshing and necessary. If I have a criticism, Chapter 11 carries an enormous amount of weight at over fifty pages and could benefit from being broken into smaller, more focused sections. Some of the theological exposition in Chapter 6 restates foundational gospel truths at length that the target audience likely already holds, and tightening it would keep the book's momentum. The writing is functional rather than literary, but for a practical guide, that serves the material well. I would put this book in the hands of every seminary student, every pastor about to candidate at a new church, and every denominational leader who has ever told a hurting pastor to "just pray about it" instead of standing beside him. It fills a gap in the pastoral training pipeline that has left too many good men blindsided and broken.
Jessica

Monday, August 10, 2026

Book Review #10: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict

 


August 9, 2026. A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict is a practical and encouraging resource for pastors who find themselves navigating difficult people, opposition, and conflict within the church. Ted D. Manby combines biblical examples, personal experiences, and practical guidance to help church leaders respond to challenging situations with wisdom, courage, and perseverance. What I appreciated most is the book’s emphasis on standing firm in God’s Word while remaining focused on the mission of caring for God’s people. It offers pastors reassurance that they are not alone when facing difficult seasons of ministry. Overall, this is a thoughtful and timely guide that encourages pastors to remain faithful, courageous, and positive even when ministry becomes challenging. A worthwhile read for pastors and church leaders.

Samantha

Sunday, August 9, 2026

Book Review #9: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict

 


A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict. Reviewed in the United States on August 6, 2026.

This was a fantastic book through and through. Even though I do not believe in God myself, I felt that reading this book was a transformative experience. I specifically like how the author defines the term “antagonists” which framed the way I thought of conflict differently. I would recommend this book to everybody, even if you don’t agree with everything the author says, I still feel that everyone would gain from giving this book a read.

Davin Black

Thursday, August 6, 2026

Book Review #8: A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict



A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict. Reviewed in the United States on August 5, 2026.

As a pastor's wife of over 25 years, I have an appreciation for a book that deals with church conflict. God's heart is for unity within the body, and being able to deal with conflict in a healthy and loving way is essential for kingdom growth. Mr. Manby's book offers clear definitions, strategies, and Biblical evidence for ensuring conflict in the church is handled in a mature and God-honoring way. This is a reference book that a pastor is sure to visit again and again as antagonists, conflicts, and attacks arise in the church. I also truly appreciated his personal vulnerability, situational examples, and easy-to-read communication style. Every pastor should have a copy on hand!

Arrica 

Wednesday, August 5, 2026

Book Review #7: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict

 


First distinguish and discern the real origin of the threat to the pastor and the church

 Having been a lay church elder, I know of very few pastors who live through what Ted Manby highlights as targeted attacks on pastors within the church by “antagonists” and share their all too often-painful experiences and grieving. Even fewer do the in-depth research of what happened to them and why. Ted Manby takes the challenge further to extrapolate the biblical and practical principles for how to prepare for and handle such attacks.

As an executive change and conflict management consultant for over 50 years, I agree with Ted Manby as he hones in on the key here, which is too often missed. First distinguish and discern the real origin of the threat to the pastor and the church. Specifically, does the church conflict come from unhealthy “antagonists” or members with reasonable concerns or external challengers just trying to help. The biblical and practical responses to such church conflicts are quite different!

Ted Manby first defines and explains the relevant terms, like “antagonists,” shares his and others painful experiences, and notes relevant contemporary frameworks. He then analyzes the dramatic impacts and implications for both pastors and the local church. The heart of this book are extensive and powerful Biblical examples, imperatives, along with the positive perspective and courage needed to cope with and handle the requisite personal and corporate fear and discouragement. Finally, in the final chapters, the principles and advice for all those involved meaningfully tie this book together.

Reviewed by Dr. R. Kraft Bell, MBA, PhD

Book Review #6: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict

 


Helpful and Practical for Anyone Dealing With Church Conflict. Reviewed in the United States on August 4, 2026. I really appreciated the approach this book takes to church conflict because this is something that can affect not only pastors and leaders, but the entire church body. What stood out to me was the importance of recognizing conflict early instead of allowing problems to grow and eventually cause division. I also liked that the book approaches conflict from a biblical and spiritual perspective while still dealing with the practical realities leaders face when working with different personalities and difficult situations. It gave me several things to think about concerning leadership, communication, unity, and how conflict should be handled within the church. I would recommend this to pastors, ministry leaders, and even church members who want a better understanding of how to respond when conflict arises.

Francis Jimenez

Book Review #5: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict


 Know and Deal With Thy Enemy.  Reviewed in the United States on July 30, 2026

I chose this book, "A Pastor's Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict," to gain some insight into how to deal with fellow members of a local political group. I have been both puzzled and dismayed at their actions, as they are dividing the group and greatly interfering with the positive impact we can have in the community. While the book obviously comes at the topic of antagonists within a religious framework, I firmly believe Rev. Manby's advice can be applied to many fields of employment. He stresses the importance of communication and finding "win-win" solutions, addressing personal attacks privately at first, being aware of antagonistic behavior (chapter 4) and addressing it quickly. He also offers excellent advice on overcoming this type of behavior, whether through your faith, with the assistance of others, with music and humor, and/or by giving yourself time to heal spiritually, mentally and/or physically. "A Pastor's Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict" is very well-written and organized. Despite the heavy topic, it is an easy read. I especially appreciated the inclusion of the author's personal experiences as a pastor and was very dismayed to read that in the US in 2008, 1500 pastors left their positions EACH month and nearly half of those people left the ministry for another occupation. Sadly, this echoes the job-turnover in education, where 50% of new teachers have quit the profession by their fifth year. I speak from personal experience that adult-to-adult bullying is rampant in public education. Obviously, something needs to be done to quickly and effectively deal with antagonists. This book, "A Pastor's Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict," offers a lot of very sage advice on how to accomplish that. I wholeheartedly recommend it.

Robin Maloney 

Book Review #4: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict

 

A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict. Reviewed in the United States on July 27, 2026

I am not a pastor, but I grew up as the daughter of a pastor and have seen first-hand many of the conflicts mentioned throughout this book. I did find that this book was very enlightening still about the struggles pastors and church leadership often go through shepherding their congregations. Rev. Manby manages to combine personal stories with biblical precedent on how to address a multitude of conflicts small and large churches alike face today. I do believe this particular guide is through the lens of a Southern Baptist Convention (SBC) perspective; however, I still think pastors across denominations will find valuable biblical information throughout this guide. I highly encourage anyone in church leadership to give this guide a read-through. I received a complimentary copy of this book. This review is completely voluntary, and all opinions in this review are entirely my own.

Erin Webb

Book Review #3: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict

 

A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict. Reviewed in the United States on July 27, 2026

Ted Manby first defines and explains the relevant terms, like “antagonists,” shares his and others' painful experiences, and notes relevant contemporary frameworks. He then analyzes the dramatic impacts and implications for both pastors and the local church. The heart of this book is extensive and powerful Biblical examples, imperatives, along with the positive perspective and courage needed to cope with and handle the requisite personal and corporate fear and discouragement. Finally, in the final chapters, the principles and advice for all those involved meaningfully tie this book together.

Kenzie Muertz

Thursday, July 30, 2026

Book Review #2: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict

 A good book for church leadership

★★★★☆
A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict is a practical, thoughtful, and biblically grounded resource for pastors, church leaders, and ministry teams navigating difficult situations within the church. The author combines biblical principles with real-life ministry experience, making the advice both relatable and actionable. Rather than offering quick fixes, the book encourages wisdom, patience, discernment, and Christ-centered leadership when dealing with conflict and antagonistic individuals. The personal examples help reinforce the lessons, and the writing remains accessible without losing depth. A worthwhile read for anyone serving in church leadership.
Review by Israel.

Book Review, #1: A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict

Ted D. Manby’s A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict provides practical, biblically grounded advice for handling one of the most difficult aspects of ministry. I especially appreciated the sections explaining the common causes of conflict within a congregation and the emphasis on addressing disagreements with humility, clear communication, forgiveness, and biblical wisdom instead of allowing bitterness to grow. Rather than simply identifying problems, the author offers realistic strategies that pastors and church leaders can apply to restore relationships and strengthen their churches.

This book mattered to me because it reminded me that conflict is not a sign of failure but an opportunity for spiritual growth when handled with grace and wisdom. The author’s balanced approach encouraged me to think about how patience, prayer, and servant leadership can help preserve unity even during challenging situations. I also liked that the advice was practical enough to be useful in everyday ministry while remaining firmly rooted in Scripture. I would recommend this book to pastors, ministry leaders, church elders, Bible college students, and anyone serving in church leadership who wants to better understand the causes of conflict and learn healthy ways to serve. 

I received a free copy of this book and compensation for my time in exchange for an honest review. Laurie 

Saturday, July 25, 2026

Press Release: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict

 A PASTOR’S GUIDE TO UNDERSTANDING AND OVERCOMING CHURCH CONFLICT ADDRESSES A CRITICAL MINISTRY CHALLENGE                                                                 Ted D. Manby offers pastors practical biblical guidance for navigating church conflict with wisdom, resilience, and lasting ministry effectiveness.

New York, NY July 26, 2026 ─ Author Ted D. Manby presents A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict, a practical Christian ministry resource that examines one of the most challenging realities facing church leaders today. Drawing attention to the complexities of conflict within congregations, the book provides thoughtful guidance for pastors seeking to lead faithfully while maintaining spiritual health, emotional resilience, and a positive outlook during seasons of ministry pressure.

A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict explores essential questions surrounding healthy and unhealthy conflict in the local church. The book examines how pastors can distinguish constructive disagreement from destructive opposition, respond wisely to both reasonable and unreasonable individuals, and address antagonistic behavior without losing sight of their calling. Grounded in biblical principles and practical application, it encourages balanced leadership that values both truth and compassion.

The inspiration for the book comes from the recognition that conflict is an unavoidable part of pastoral ministry, yet many church leaders receive limited preparation for navigating its challenges. Manby seeks to provide pastors with practical tools that can help them evaluate difficult situations, maintain a healthy perspective, and remain committed to serving their congregations even when facing criticism, misunderstanding, or personal attacks.

Beyond addressing conflict itself, the book emphasizes the importance of spiritual endurance and personal well-being. It highlights attitudes and responses that can help pastors remain faithful under pressure while avoiding discouragement and burnout. By encouraging leaders to seek wisdom, support, and biblical perspective, the book demonstrates that periods of conflict can become opportunities for growth, stronger leadership, and deeper dependence on God rather than obstacles that define a ministry.

The book is written for pastors, ministry leaders, seminary students, church elders, denominational leaders, and anyone serving in Christian leadership who desires practical insight into handling difficult situations within the church. Readers will find guidance for evaluating conflict, strengthening relationships, and responding with integrity when ministry becomes especially demanding. Its balanced approach makes it a valuable resource for both experienced pastors and those preparing for future leadership roles.

Ted D. Manby brings a deep commitment to Christian ministry and pastoral leadership through his thoughtful examination of challenges that affect churches and their leaders. His writing reflects a desire to equip pastors with practical, biblically grounded resources that strengthen their calling and encourage faithful service, resilience, and longevity. With A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict, Manby offers an accessible resource designed to help ministry leaders navigate conflict with wisdom, confidence, biblical courage, and enduring hope.

The book is now available — secure your copy here: https://a.co/d/0e5Y48EO

For review copies, interview requests, or additional information, please contact:

Ted D. Manby

@tedmanby on Threads or

tedmanby@gmail.com

Saturday, May 2, 2026

MORTIFICATION OF INDWELLING SIN Romans 8:1-17

Romans 8:1-17

Introduction

1. (ILL.) If you have two mules hooked up to a plow, Lilly and Viola, and someone asks you which mule plowed the field? How do you answer? In one conversation you might even take credit for plowing the field; in others you give the credit to the two mules. Switching to oxen or horses doesn’t fix the problem. Both animals in the yoke pulled the plow together. A human helped guide the plow as well. One animal can’t take credit for what the other did. They were yokefellows in the task. That is the way it is w/ the Christian life. We are yokefellows with the Holy Spirit. There are two people working together to complete the task. Who wrote the book of Luke: The Holy Spirit or Luke? Both are involved. The book has dual authorship. The Christian life is not let go and let God, or have the Holy Spirit come and replace you; neither is it that you do it all. It involves concurrence. It is two persons working together. Not like demon possession, they replace you, nor like a self-made man, he does everything himself. There are two persons working together. This requires teamwork.

2. (Review Rom. 6, 7). (Read Rom 6:11-14) Sin’s authority, Rom 6 teaches us, has been broken and replaced with King Jesus in the life of a real believer. Romans 7 tells us we still have indwelling sin. What is the cure for indwelling sin? Death. What can put sin into remission? Mortification. Killing it. Indwelling sin is powerful, deceitful, and inside us. That is true truth, but bad news. Rom 8 has the good news: the believer is also indwelt by the Holy Spirit, Who is more powerful, stronger, wiser, and He is also inside us. Justification is a work that God does alone. Sanctification is different. It is not an event but a process, and it is not done without us. The Holy Spirit will not renew our minds alone. We can’t do it alone. It is a team effort that involves the Holy Spirit, the body of Christ, the word of God, prayer, and Christian fellowship. We must read, study, memorize, and meditate on the word of God in faith for our minds to be renewed with the truth in a world full of error constantly contaminating us. There are no mystical secrets to the Christian life or a higher plane for a select few. The simple teamwork of the gospel and the Holy Spirit began our journey, and there is teamwork to complete it. This is where we see that humans have free moral agency. Let us consider the good news of Romans chapter 8.

3. Direction. We are going to explore the mortification of indwelling sin under three headings.

           Every believer needs to know about:

  I. The law, sinners, and salvation.

 II. That fallen human beings are unable to save themselves. 

III. Putting sin to death, the Spirit, and suffering.

 

  I. EVERY BELIEVER NEEDS TO KNOW ABOUT THE LAW, SINNERS, AND SALVATION. [1-2] 

      A. Elect sinners will be delivered by Christ. (vs. 1-2) How?

            1. Delivered from everlasting death. Elected by God from before the foundation of the earth Eph. 1:4

            2. Delivered from the condemnation of sin and the law. (vs. 1)

a. The moral law says to the unbeliever, “Do this or die! Perfectly every time.” Lying, murder, adultery (even the natural law written on every pagan’s heart confirms the written moral law. (Remember Rom. 2)

                b. But the moral law says to the believer, simply, “Do this!”

                c. The believer is not free from obedience or duty to holiness, but is free from condemnation.

                d. Our substitute has taken the penalty of death, so now we obey in love, gratitude, and thankfulness while we seek to glorify and please our Holy God who still hates idolatry and coveting

            3. Delivered from sin’s bondage and authority. (vs. 2)

                a. We now have the power of the life-giving Spirit rather than being under the power of sin and death.

               b. The former bondage to sin was broken at our conversion


      B. Only those who are in Christ are delivered from condemnation.    (vs. 1)

1. Only the people who are in Christ by faith and repentance. They have a new covenant relationship that is both personal and corporate. They are in union with Christ.

2. This is not the modern decisional regeneration; it is one like in John 3, done solely by the Holy Spirit.

 3. You must be born from above first, before either seeing or entering the kingdom of God.

 4. Regeneration, followed by the gifts of Repentance and Faith, then the human act of trust using the 2 gifts, followed by Conversion and Justification (declared righteous). Here is when the sanctification process begins.

     C. (Argumentation): Salvation is a gift from God. The Moral Law’s job is not to save. It never was. It shines a light on the sin and exposes the desperate need for salvation. In your heart, you are a liar, a thief, a blasphemer, and an adulterer. All it takes is one sinful thought to earn hell. Salvation is of Yahweh. It is all about Jesus and not all about you.

     D. (ILL.) 

1. You are on a cruise ship 30 miles off the FL coast. It starts to sink. You do not have the ability to swim to land from that distance. If you are going to survive, you need someone else to rescue you, save you, deliver you from the water. The Coast Guard helicopter lowered a basket. You cannot save yourself. There is only one way out. You get into the basket or die. But your foot is caught in a fishing net. So, a diver jumps in, cuts the net, and pushes you up into the basket. How much glory do you deserve? Did you really save yourself because you were smarter than all the other passengers?  

2. Don’t be like Jonah’s whale and empty your stomach [vomit] when you hear, “Salvation is of the LORD.” Free Willy was a movie about a killer whale, and that might be a good name for Jonah’s sea creature. Hearing about the sovereignty of God made him ill, and up came the stomach contents. But those committed to free will theism are not carefully following the text of the Bible or reason. Your will is bound to your moral nature and is not an independent and free entity. Free will concepts are importing from Greek philosophy. Like Luther told Erasmus, if you have free will, choose to fly around this room and then do it. You cannot because your will is bound to the natural laws of gravity. It is not free to do whatever it wants.

     E. (Application) Friend, have you repented of your sin against God and embraced Jesus the Messiah by faith? Do you deeply trust Him as the One who paid for all your sins in full? Have you taken up your cross to follow Him? Believer, could it be time to stop patting yourself on the back for how wise you were to become a Christian and start giving all the glory to God alone. Romans 8, if understood, will humble you. The Holy Spirit regenerates with no help from you. He gives the gifts of repentance and faith to people who were spiritually dead right after He gave them new life from above so that the gifts can be exercised. If you are saved, He first brought new life into your soul. You were born again by His power, not by yours. Like the wind, the Holy Spirit is not under your control or bound by a spiritually dead person’s decisions that are always controlled by their sin nature. They can choose apples over oranges but cannot choose God on their own (Calvin). They hate God and His moral law. 

 II. EVERY BELIEVER NEEDS TO KNOW THAT FALLEN HUMAN BEINGS ARE UNABLE TO SAVE THEMSELVES [Read vs. 3-12]

A. God saves His people partly by keeping the law for them. (3-4) The moral law must be kept. It reflects the holy nature of God. Any violation requires death.                                    

           1. The work of God the Son: atonement, redemption, and propitiation (a wrath-bearing sacrifice). (vs. 3)

                * Jesus died in the place of His people and also kept all aspects of the law for them as a substitute.

     * Look at verse 3 “for what the Law could not do, [save rebellious sinners] weak as it was through the flesh, [people with a sin nature, the world system, and the demons are all against them, they don’t have a chance] God did: sending His own Son [Jesus lived a holy life in our place and died in our place] in the likeness of sinful flesh [God the Son looked like other humans because He being truly God also took on a true human nature] and as an offering for sin, [Jesus died in our place on the cross, the day of atonement] He condemned sin in the flesh” [Jesus bore our condemnation during His cross-work sufferings]

2. The work of God the Holy Spirit. He is a person. He has a mind, will, and divine emotions; and He works, speaks, and prays (vs.4)

[Forces like water or electricity cannot pray, speak, or think. He is a person, not a thing or an "it." The proper pronoun is "He."]

a. How is righteousness revealed to us? By the moral law. Jesus fulfilled the ceremonial law---all the old covenant worship regulations, diets, and Jewish separation rules. However, after His resurrection and the day of Pentecost, the Apostles repeated the Ten Commandments in the New Testament and applied them to both Gentile and Jewish Christians (Rom 13:9-14, Eph 6:4). God still hates idolatry (1 Cor 10:14; 1 John 5:21). We still must keep the moral law. It is a duty and different from the ceremonial and civil law of Israel. But we can only keep it with the help of the Holy Spirit.

b. Of course, we do not keep it perfectly like Jesus did, but our desire is to obey, our attempt to please our Holy God.

               c. The believer delights in the holy law of God in the inner man, but they also struggle w/ indwelling sin. There is a full-blown war inside us.

     d. 1 John 3:4 “Everyone who does sin also does lawlessness; Sin is lawlessness.” The opposite is also true. Holiness is obedience to the moral law. Holiness is lawfulness.

               e. The moral law is still in force, but the condemnation is gone for the believer. It can only say, “Do this!”

 

      B. There are two types of people in the world. (Read vs. 5-11)

              1. Unconverted followers of the flesh. (5-8) No ability, spiritually dead.

              2. Converted followers of Christ, led by the Holy Spirit. New ability, spiritually alive. (vs. 5-11) (Read 9-11)

 

      C. There is evidence that shows that someone is not yet converted and on the broad road. (5-8)                                       

              1. The unconverted do not keep God’s moral law. (Ten Commandments + other moral commands)

                     a. No other gods; the Creator God gets the first place in your life.

                     b. No idols, pictures, or images of any of the members of the Trinity. Don’t make them, don’t use them.

                     c. Don’t misuse God’s name.

d. Keep the Sabbath holy; work 6 days, give God 1 day. Rest properly and corporately worship each week, which includes learning the Bible, prayer, singing praise, and fellowship.

                     e. Honor and respect parents and others in authority.

                     f. Do not murder or hate other humans.  

                     g. Do not lust or commit adultery.

                     h. Do not steal.

                     i. Do not lie, falsely accuse, or swear to a lie in court (perjury).

j. Do not Covetlong for other people’s possessions, positions, or relationships. Coveting is stealing from others in your heart. This command alerts the reader that outward conformity is not enough.

         k. Yes, there are some changes to the 4th and 5th commandments when they come into the New Covenant, but the basic principles remain. The unconverted break all of these and more.

              2. The unconverted follow their sin nature. They cannot help it. They are blind (Matt 15:14, 23:17), paralyzed (Rom 5:6), and unable to obey (1 Cor 2:14).

              3. They selfishly set their minds on lawlessness. They seek their own glory. Pride rules.

              4. Their minds think wickedly.

              5. They are at war with God.

              6. They are not able to be subject to God’s law.

              7. They do not have the Holy Spirit in them.

              8. They are not spiritually alive.

              9. They are under sin’s control. It is their master. It is their boss.

Do not love the world or the things that belong to the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in him.

For everything that belongs to the worldthe lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride in one’s lifestyleis not from the Father, but is from the world. (1 Jn. 2:15-16 HCSB)

They went out from us, but they did not belong to us; for if they had belonged to us, they would have remained with us. However, they went out so that it might be made clear that none of them belongs to us. (1 Jn. 2:19 HCSB)

"Everyone who commits sin also breaks the law; sin is the breaking of law. You know that He was revealed so that He might take away sins, and there is no sin in Him. Everyone who remains in Him does not sin; everyone who sins has not seen Him or known Him. Little children, let no one deceive you! The one who does what is right is righteous, just as He is righteous. The one who commits sin is of the Devil, for the Devil has sinned from the beginning. The Son of God was revealed for this purpose: to destroy the Devil’s works. Everyone who has been born of God does not sin, because His seed remains in him; he is not able to sin, because he has been born of God. This is how God’s childrenand the Devil’s childrenare made evident. Whoever does not do what is right is not of God, especially the one who does not love his brother." (1 Jn. 3:4-10 HCSB)

      D. There is evidence that displays that someone is converted and on the narrow road. (vs. 5-11)

              1. They keep God’s moral law with the Holy Spirit’s aid.

              2. They set their minds on God’s truth.

              3. They possess both everlasting life and peace with God.

              4. They gratefully seek to please God because they love and revere Him.

              5. They have the Holy Spirit indwelling within them. (Evidenced by the fruit of the Holy Spirit)

              6. They are spiritually alive and live for the glory of God.

              7. They mortify sin with the Holy Spirit’s help.

              8. They are led by the Holy Spirit.

              9. They suffer as Christ did from the world system.

           10. They reveal by their behavior and new desires that sin’s mastery is broken in their lives.

      E. God’s elect must obey Him. (vs. 12) (they are bankrupt debtors set free)

           (ILL.) In the OT Civil Law of Israel, a bondservant was to be set free after they had served their appointed time. But after their contracted time was complete, if they had a wonderful master and loved him, they could stay. They would go to the door frame and have their ear pierced to symbolize that they are now a totally voluntary slave of their wonderful master. They are free but remain, serve, and obey the master. This is a picture for us.

      F. (Argumentation) Unbelievers cannot decide to save themselves any time they want to.

Paul writes, “But the unbeliever does not welcome what comes from God’s Spirit, because it is foolishness to him; he is not able to understand it since it is evaluated spiritually. The spiritual person, however, can evaluate everything, yet he himself cannot be evaluated by anyone.” (1 Cor. 2:14-15 HCSB) Not able, means unable, inability. Pagans are blind (Matt 23:17) and paralyzed (Rom 5:6). The Holy Spirit must make the first move and give new life to those who are spiritual corpses (Eph 2:1-4).

      G. (Application) Jesus said, “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.” (John 14:15) He is the one who wrote the Ten Commandments twice with His own finger and handed the tablets to Moses. You do not mechanically and outwardly comply with the law in order to try to earn God’s favor. No. Out of love, awe, respect, honor, and gratitude, you show your love for God as you seek to glorify Him by obeying Him in your mind and body. He still hates stealing.

   III. EVERY BELIEVER NEEDS TO KNOW ABOUT PUTTING SIN TO DEATH, THE HOLY SPIRIT, AND SUFFERING. [vs.13-17] 

            A. God’s elect must mortify their indwelling sin. (vs. 13)

Do not pretend the sin is not there. Face it and daily put it to death. Fight it! Kill it! Like Samuel with Agag, hack it to pieces.

                 1. Who kills the sin? You do, but only by the power of the Spirit.

                 2. What do you do? Kill it. This is called mortification.

3. How? You daily repent of your sins, iniquities, and rebellion. You daily take up the cross to put your selfishness to death and follow Jesus instead.

4. The fight with sin is serious. Jesus used hyperbole to illustrate it. Plucking out eyes, cutting off hands. I take the sin that has been dear to me as my hand or eye, and I remove this sin from my body. I flee some sins and stand strong against others.

5. Put to death indwelling sin is a present tense command that shows ongoing action; it is not a onetime event and done.

                 6. Paul writes, “So, if you have been raised with the Messiah, seek what is above, where the Messiah is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on what is above, not on what is on the earth. For you have died, and your life is hidden with the Messiah in God. When the Messiah, who is your life, is revealed, then you also will be revealed with Him in glory. Therefore, put to death what belongs to your worldly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desire, and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, God’s wrath comes on the disobedient, and you once walked in these things when you were living in them. But now you must also put away all the following: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and filthy language from your mouth. Do not lie to one another, since you have put off the old self with its practices and have put on the new self. You are being renewed in knowledge according to the image of your Creator.” (Col. 3:1-10 HCSB)

                7. You are at war; kill your enemy. Don’t believe the lies of the dangerous doctrine of perfectionism or that you can have some second work of grace that will put you above sin in this world. The pretense that is required to maintain this false view is dangerous. 

                8. (ILL.) A lion escaped from the zoo. There is a man who reads about it in the paper while sitting in his chair. He thinks he is petting his dog while he reads the newspaper, but it is the lion he is petting. Because he is ignoring this beast, he is in danger. It eats meat, and that is what he is made of. When we pretend our indwelling sin is not really there, we are like a man reading the paper, petting the lion. Good doggy! Denial is not your friend! Face the enemy within. Starve it. Take up the sword of the Spirit, the word of God. 

           B. God’s elect are all led by the Holy Spirit. [Here we have gentle control and willing submission] (vs. 14)

                 1. A canoe race requires two people working together to win. The guy in the bow cannot win alone.

                 2. A see-saw requires two people’s effort for it to work properly.

                 3. A 6-foot crosscut tree saw requires two people to cut the large tree.

           C. God’s elect are adopted children. (vs. 15-16)

                 1. Remember who you are.

                 2. Remember Whose you are.

                 3. If you are a child of God, you are identified with and in union with the Son of God, Jesus the Messiah.

           D. God’s elect must suffer with Christ. (17) We are called to suffer. The world will not accept your difference. [See the rest of Rom. 8]

E. (ILL) Killing indwelling sin is like killing a cockroach or a mouse. If you go to bed and think, I got him, that is done, there are no more, he was the last one. You are sadly mistaken. Every day the war must go on.

F. (Application) Stay in the battle. Use the spiritual armor of Eph. 6. Keep fighting, keep the enemy on the inside on the run rather than gathering and gaining strength by your neglect. [Bunyan's book Man-Soul]

G. Do not be surprised by suffering. If the world and the demons are your enemies, they will attack and use humans to persecute you. We will learn more about suffering later in this chapter.

Conclusion

Today we have seen from this chapter: 

I. Every Christian needs to know about the moral law, sinners, and salvation.

II. Every Christian needs to know that fallen human beings are unable to save themselves. 

III. Every Christian needs to know about putting sin to death, the Spirit, and suffering. 

(ILL) The army woke up to see a beautiful wooden horse outside the city gate of Troy. Maybe our enemy gave us this gift so we would make peace with them. They noticed it had wheels, so they pulled it through the gate inside the walls to show off its beauty. But now the enemy was inside the walls. When most guards were asleep and the ones near the horse walked their route to another part of the city, the enemy soldiers inside the horse snuck out. They opened the gate and let even more enemies in, and they started attacking the city. We too have an enemy that is inside our walls. It is remaining corruption, indwelling sin. Keep it weak and scattered.

(APPL) The word of God should be read, studied, memorized, and meditated upon throughout the day. Prayer links us to the power of God. Fellowship, encouragement, edification, and equipping by the church body builds us up.

If you are a true believer, you are at war. Kill sin, or it will kill you. Are you comfortable in this world? Are you a real believer? Call on God. Ask Jesus to save you. Repent and trust Jesus and the Bible, His Word. “Whoever calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” Do it today!

Friday, April 10, 2026

Nehemiah 9 Study Notes

 This chapter teaches us primarily about four things:

1.       The character of effective prayer

2.       The character of the Bible

3.       The nature of humanity

4.       The nature of God

 

I.          Effective Prayer

What kind of prayer is included in this chapter? Is it honest? (Yes.) What is the source of the content of this prayer? (The Bible and Redemptive History.) Does this prayer include confession and repentance? (Yes.) Does it include adoration of God? (Yes.) Does it include thanksgiving? (Yes.) Does it include supplication (direct petitions for God to act)? (No, it focuses on the actions of people–recommitment to the covenant.) Compare this prayer to advertising, social media, or a resume. How often do you see an accurate description of centuries of failure, rebellion, and lawbreaking in these other resources? (Never.) This is not a press release, a myth, or a fairy tale. This is what Alan Jackson sang about in the song, “Here in the Real World.” Raw, unvarnished true truth is what we find in the Bible and what we find in effective prayer. Confession of sin requires honesty and not mislabeling or downplaying how harmful the sin and rebellion was. This is a corporate public prayer by the spiritual leaders of the assembly.

II.        The Bible

Nehemiah uses a number of terms to describe sections of the Bible.

·        Upright judgments (mishpatim) Civil laws [vs. 13]

·        True Laws (torah) moral instructions that can be taught with a story as well as direct commandment (e.g. Noah, Lot, Nadab, Abihu–consequences of drunkenness) [vs. 13]

·        Good statutes (ōq) purity regulations and worship rules {Ceremonial law} [vs. 13]. See the end of Leviticus 26.

·        Commandments (mitsvah) moral laws which include the Ten Commandments [vs. 13]

·        Holy Sabbath (shabbat) The 7th day, Friday 6pm to Saturday 6pm, a day of rest and worship, but the command also required work on the other 6 days [vs.14]

·        God commanded (verb) commandments (mitsvah), statutes (ōq), law (torah). Using these three terms together is for all the content of the first four books of the Bible written by Moses. [vs. 14]

·        Testimonies (edut) technical term for the Ten Commandments

Nehemiah believed the Bible made clear how a person could please God. He believed its witness that Yahweh created the universe in seven days. He believed all the prophets’ descriptions of the behavior of the people. The Bible is a reliable source of truth in a world of falsehoods and errors. Good leaders, such as Nehemiah and Jesus, trust the Bible.

III.     The Nature of Humanity

A. Compromising with pagans, sinning (intentional and unintentional), committing iniquities (directly violating commandments)

B. Act presumptuously (rebelliously proud), stiff-necked, refusing to listen, forgetting God’s wondrous deeds

C. Idol makers, blasphemers, disobedient, rebellious, throwing God’s word away, murdering God’s prophets, returning to do evil, sinning against civil laws

D. Stubborn shoulder and stiff-necked (rebellious), acting wickedly, not following biblical instruction, not paying attention to moral laws, especially the Ten Words

E. Not serving Yahweh (obeying, following, worshipping), not repenting of their evil deeds (U-turn)

IV.    The Nature of God–W. Wiersbe, commentary, Chapter 9: “Amazing Grace”

A. The Greatness of God vs. 1-6 (W. 120-123)

1.  He receives our worship

2. He is God alone

3. He created the universe

4. He providentially cares for His creation

5. The angels of heaven worship Him

B. The Goodness of God vs. 7-30 (W. 123-127)

1) Forming the nation of Israel

2) Leading the nation of Israel

3) Discipling the nation of Israel

C. The Grace of God vs. 31-38 (W. 127-129)

1) Abundant compassion (raamim) [noun] Only used 39 times (1Kgs 3:26), often used as kindness, favor, mercy, or merciful love, once for a mother’s love for a baby [vs. 19, 27, 28, 31]

2) Gracious (annun) [adj.] Used only 13 times but related to the noun in Gen 6:8 (an) “Noah found grace in the eyes of Yahweh”

3) Compassionate (raum) [adj.] Used only in 13 verses

4) Keeps covenant (berit) [noun] faithful no matter what [used in 265 verses]

5) Lovingkindness (esed) [noun] faithful love, covenant love, volitional gracious kindness [used in 239 verses]