★★★★★
Wednesday, September 16, 2026
Book Review #13: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict
Book Review #12: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict
★★★★★
Thursday, August 13, 2026
Book Review #11: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict
★★★★☆
Monday, August 10, 2026
Book Review #10: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict
August 9, 2026. A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding &
Overcoming Church Conflict is a practical and encouraging resource for pastors
who find themselves navigating difficult people, opposition, and conflict
within the church. Ted D. Manby combines biblical examples, personal
experiences, and practical guidance to help church leaders respond to
challenging situations with wisdom, courage, and perseverance. What I
appreciated most is the book’s emphasis on standing firm in God’s Word while
remaining focused on the mission of caring for God’s people. It offers pastors
reassurance that they are not alone when facing difficult seasons of ministry.
Overall, this is a thoughtful and timely guide that encourages pastors to
remain faithful, courageous, and positive even when ministry becomes
challenging. A worthwhile read for pastors and church leaders.
Samantha
Sunday, August 9, 2026
Book Review #9: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict
A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church
Conflict. Reviewed in the United States on August 6, 2026.
This was a fantastic book through and through. Even though I
do not believe in God myself, I felt that reading this book was a
transformative experience. I specifically like how the author defines the term “antagonists”
which framed the way I thought of conflict differently. I would recommend this
book to everybody, even if you don’t agree with everything the author says, I
still feel that everyone would gain from giving this book a read.
Davin Black
Thursday, August 6, 2026
Book Review #8: A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict
A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church
Conflict. Reviewed in the United States on August 5, 2026.
As a pastor's wife of over 25 years, I have an appreciation
for a book that deals with church conflict. God's heart is for unity within the
body, and being able to deal with conflict in a healthy and loving way is
essential for kingdom growth. Mr. Manby's book offers clear definitions,
strategies, and Biblical evidence for ensuring conflict in the church is
handled in a mature and God-honoring way. This is a reference book that a
pastor is sure to visit again and again as antagonists, conflicts, and attacks
arise in the church. I also truly appreciated his personal vulnerability,
situational examples, and easy-to-read communication style. Every pastor should
have a copy on hand!
Arrica
Wednesday, August 5, 2026
Book Review #7: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict
First
distinguish and discern the real origin of the threat to the pastor and the
church
As an executive change and conflict management
consultant for over 50 years, I agree with Ted Manby as he hones in on the key
here, which is too often missed. First distinguish and discern the real origin
of the threat to the pastor and the church. Specifically, does the church
conflict come from unhealthy “antagonists” or members with reasonable concerns
or external challengers just trying to help. The biblical and practical
responses to such church conflicts are quite different!
Ted Manby first defines and explains the
relevant terms, like “antagonists,” shares his and others painful experiences,
and notes relevant contemporary frameworks. He then analyzes the dramatic
impacts and implications for both pastors and the local church. The heart of
this book are extensive and powerful Biblical examples, imperatives, along with
the positive perspective and courage needed to cope with and handle the
requisite personal and corporate fear and discouragement. Finally, in the final
chapters, the principles and advice for all those involved meaningfully tie
this book together.
Reviewed by Dr. R. Kraft Bell, MBA, PhD
Book Review #6: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict
Helpful and Practical for Anyone Dealing With Church Conflict. Reviewed in the United States on August 4, 2026. I really appreciated the approach this book takes to church conflict because this is something that can affect not only pastors and leaders, but the entire church body. What stood out to me was the importance of recognizing conflict early instead of allowing problems to grow and eventually cause division. I also liked that the book approaches conflict from a biblical and spiritual perspective while still dealing with the practical realities leaders face when working with different personalities and difficult situations. It gave me several things to think about concerning leadership, communication, unity, and how conflict should be handled within the church. I would recommend this to pastors, ministry leaders, and even church members who want a better understanding of how to respond when conflict arises.
Francis Jimenez
Book Review #5: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict
Know and Deal With Thy Enemy. Reviewed in the United States on July 30, 2026
I chose this book, "A Pastor's Guide to Understanding
and Overcoming Church Conflict," to gain some insight into how to deal
with fellow members of a local political group. I have been both puzzled and
dismayed at their actions, as they are dividing the group and greatly
interfering with the positive impact we can have in the community. While the
book obviously comes at the topic of antagonists within a religious framework,
I firmly believe Rev. Manby's advice can be applied to many fields of
employment. He stresses the importance of communication and finding
"win-win" solutions, addressing personal attacks privately at first,
being aware of antagonistic behavior (chapter 4) and addressing it quickly. He
also offers excellent advice on overcoming this type of behavior, whether
through your faith, with the assistance of others, with music and humor, and/or
by giving yourself time to heal spiritually, mentally and/or physically. "A
Pastor's Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict" is very
well-written and organized. Despite the heavy topic, it is an easy read. I
especially appreciated the inclusion of the author's personal experiences as a
pastor and was very dismayed to read that in the US in 2008, 1500 pastors left
their positions EACH month and nearly half of those people left the ministry
for another occupation. Sadly, this echoes the job-turnover in education, where
50% of new teachers have quit the profession by their fifth year. I speak from
personal experience that adult-to-adult bullying is rampant in public
education. Obviously, something needs to be done to quickly and effectively
deal with antagonists. This book, "A Pastor's Guide to Understanding and
Overcoming Church Conflict," offers a lot of very sage advice on how to
accomplish that. I wholeheartedly recommend it.
Robin Maloney
Book Review #4: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict
A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church
Conflict. Reviewed in the United States on July 27, 2026
I am not a pastor, but I grew up as the daughter of a pastor
and have seen first-hand many of the conflicts mentioned throughout this book.
I did find that this book was very enlightening still about the struggles
pastors and church leadership often go through shepherding their congregations.
Rev. Manby manages to combine personal stories with biblical precedent on how
to address a multitude of conflicts small and large churches alike face today. I
do believe this particular guide is through the lens of a Southern Baptist
Convention (SBC) perspective; however, I still think pastors across
denominations will find valuable biblical information throughout this guide. I
highly encourage anyone in church leadership to give this guide a read-through.
I received a complimentary copy of this book. This review is completely voluntary,
and all opinions in this review are entirely my own.
Erin Webb
Book Review #3: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict
A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church
Conflict. Reviewed in the United States on July 27, 2026
Ted Manby first defines and explains the relevant terms,
like “antagonists,” shares his and others' painful experiences, and notes
relevant contemporary frameworks. He then analyzes the dramatic impacts and
implications for both pastors and the local church. The heart of this book is extensive
and powerful Biblical examples, imperatives, along with the positive
perspective and courage needed to cope with and handle the requisite personal
and corporate fear and discouragement. Finally, in the final chapters, the
principles and advice for all those involved meaningfully tie this book
together.
Kenzie Muertz
Thursday, July 30, 2026
Book Review #2: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict
A good book for church leadership
Book Review, #1: A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict
Ted D. Manby’s A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict provides practical, biblically grounded advice for handling one of the most difficult aspects of ministry. I especially appreciated the sections explaining the common causes of conflict within a congregation and the emphasis on addressing disagreements with humility, clear communication, forgiveness, and biblical wisdom instead of allowing bitterness to grow. Rather than simply identifying problems, the author offers realistic strategies that pastors and church leaders can apply to restore relationships and strengthen their churches.
This book mattered to me because it reminded me that conflict is not a sign of failure but an opportunity for spiritual growth when handled with grace and wisdom. The author’s balanced approach encouraged me to think about how patience, prayer, and servant leadership can help preserve unity even during challenging situations. I also liked that the advice was practical enough to be useful in everyday ministry while remaining firmly rooted in Scripture. I would recommend this book to pastors, ministry leaders, church elders, Bible college students, and anyone serving in church leadership who wants to better understand the causes of conflict and learn healthy ways to serve. I received a free copy of this book and compensation for my time in exchange for an honest review. Laurie
Saturday, July 25, 2026
Press Release: A Pastor's Guide to Understanding & Overcoming Church Conflict
A PASTOR’S GUIDE TO UNDERSTANDING AND OVERCOMING CHURCH CONFLICT ADDRESSES A CRITICAL MINISTRY CHALLENGE Ted D. Manby offers pastors practical biblical guidance for navigating church conflict with wisdom, resilience, and lasting ministry effectiveness.
New York, NY July 26, 2026 ─ Author
Ted D. Manby presents A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding and Overcoming
Church Conflict, a practical Christian ministry resource that examines one of
the most challenging realities facing church leaders today. Drawing attention to
the complexities of conflict within congregations, the book provides thoughtful
guidance for pastors seeking to lead faithfully while maintaining spiritual
health, emotional resilience, and a positive outlook during seasons of ministry
pressure.
A Pastor’s Guide to
Understanding and Overcoming Church Conflict explores essential questions
surrounding healthy and unhealthy conflict in the local church. The book
examines how pastors can distinguish constructive disagreement from destructive
opposition, respond wisely to both reasonable and unreasonable individuals, and
address antagonistic behavior without losing sight of their calling. Grounded
in biblical principles and practical application, it encourages balanced
leadership that values both truth and compassion.
The inspiration for the book comes
from the recognition that conflict is an unavoidable part of pastoral ministry,
yet many church leaders receive limited preparation for navigating its
challenges. Manby seeks to provide pastors with practical tools that can help
them evaluate difficult situations, maintain a healthy perspective, and remain
committed to serving their congregations even when facing criticism, misunderstanding,
or personal attacks.
Beyond addressing conflict itself,
the book emphasizes the importance of spiritual endurance and personal well-being.
It highlights attitudes and responses that can help pastors remain faithful
under pressure while avoiding discouragement and burnout. By encouraging leaders
to seek wisdom, support, and biblical perspective, the book demonstrates that
periods of conflict can become opportunities for growth, stronger leadership,
and deeper dependence on God rather than obstacles that define a ministry.
The book is written for pastors,
ministry leaders, seminary students, church elders, denominational leaders, and
anyone serving in Christian leadership who desires practical insight into handling
difficult situations within the church. Readers will find guidance for evaluating
conflict, strengthening relationships, and responding with integrity when
ministry becomes especially demanding. Its balanced approach makes it a
valuable resource for both experienced pastors and those preparing for future
leadership roles.
Ted D. Manby brings a deep
commitment to Christian ministry and pastoral leadership through his thoughtful
examination of challenges that affect churches and their leaders. His writing
reflects a desire to equip pastors with practical, biblically grounded
resources that strengthen their calling and encourage faithful service, resilience,
and longevity. With A Pastor’s Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Church
Conflict, Manby offers an accessible resource designed to help ministry
leaders navigate conflict with wisdom, confidence, biblical courage, and
enduring hope.
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Saturday, May 2, 2026
MORTIFICATION OF INDWELLING SIN Romans 8:1-17
Romans 8:1-17
Introduction
1. (ILL.) If you have two mules hooked up to a plow, Lilly and Viola, and someone asks you which mule plowed the field? How do you answer? In one conversation you might even take credit for plowing the field; in others you give the credit to the two mules. Switching to oxen or horses doesn’t fix the problem. Both animals in the yoke pulled the plow together. A human helped guide the plow as well. One animal can’t take credit for what the other did. They were yokefellows in the task. That is the way it is w/ the Christian life. We are yokefellows with the Holy Spirit. There are two people working together to complete the task. Who wrote the book of Luke: The Holy Spirit or Luke? Both are involved. The book has dual authorship. The Christian life is not let go and let God, or have the Holy Spirit come and replace you; neither is it that you do it all. It involves concurrence. It is two persons working together. Not like demon possession, they replace you, nor like a self-made man, he does everything himself. There are two persons working together. This requires teamwork.
2. (Review Rom. 6, 7). (Read Rom 6:11-14) Sin’s authority, Rom 6 teaches us, has been broken and replaced with King Jesus in the life of a real believer. Romans 7 tells us we still have indwelling sin. What is the cure for indwelling sin? Death. What can put sin into remission? Mortification. Killing it. Indwelling sin is powerful, deceitful, and inside us. That is true truth, but bad news. Rom 8 has the good news: the believer is also indwelt by the Holy Spirit, Who is more powerful, stronger, wiser, and He is also inside us. Justification is a work that God does alone. Sanctification is different. It is not an event but a process, and it is not done without us. The Holy Spirit will not renew our minds alone. We can’t do it alone. It is a team effort that involves the Holy Spirit, the body of Christ, the word of God, prayer, and Christian fellowship. We must read, study, memorize, and meditate on the word of God in faith for our minds to be renewed with the truth in a world full of error constantly contaminating us. There are no mystical secrets to the Christian life or a higher plane for a select few. The simple teamwork of the gospel and the Holy Spirit began our journey, and there is teamwork to complete it. This is where we see that humans have free moral agency. Let us consider the good news of Romans chapter 8.
3. Direction. We are going to explore the mortification of
indwelling sin under three headings.
Every believer needs to know about:
I. The law, sinners, and salvation.
II. That fallen human beings are unable to save themselves.
III. Putting sin to death, the Spirit, and suffering.
I. EVERY BELIEVER NEEDS TO KNOW ABOUT THE LAW, SINNERS, AND SALVATION. [1-2]
A. Elect sinners will be delivered by Christ. (vs. 1-2) How?
1. Delivered from everlasting death. Elected
by God from before the foundation of the earth Eph. 1:4
2. Delivered from the condemnation of sin and
the law. (vs. 1)
a. The moral law says to the unbeliever,
“Do this or die! Perfectly every time.” Lying, murder, adultery (even the natural
law written on every pagan’s heart confirms the written moral law. (Remember Rom.
2)
b. But the moral law says to the believer,
simply, “Do this!”
c. The believer is not free from obedience or duty to holiness, but is free from condemnation.
d. Our substitute has taken the penalty of death, so now we obey in love, gratitude, and thankfulness while we seek to glorify and please our Holy God who still hates idolatry and coveting
3. Delivered from sin’s bondage and authority.
(vs. 2)
a. We now have the power of the
life-giving Spirit rather than being under the power of sin and death.
b. The
former bondage to sin was broken at our conversion
B. Only those who
are in Christ are delivered from condemnation. (vs. 1)
1. Only the people who are in Christ by
faith and repentance. They have a new covenant relationship that is both
personal and corporate. They are in union with Christ.
2. This is not the modern decisional regeneration;
it is one like in John 3, done solely by the Holy Spirit.
3. You must be born from above first, before either seeing or entering the
kingdom of God.
4. Regeneration, followed by the gifts of Repentance and Faith, then the human act of trust using the 2 gifts, followed by Conversion and Justification (declared righteous). Here is when the sanctification process begins.
C. (Argumentation): Salvation is a gift from God. The Moral Law’s job is not to save. It never was. It shines a light on the sin and exposes the desperate need for salvation. In your heart, you are a liar, a thief, a blasphemer, and an adulterer. All it takes is one sinful thought to earn hell. Salvation is of Yahweh. It is all about Jesus and not all about you.
D. (ILL.)
1. You are on a cruise ship 30 miles
off the FL coast. It starts to sink. You do not have the ability to swim to
land from that distance. If you are going to survive, you need someone else to
rescue you, save you, deliver you from the water. The Coast Guard helicopter lowered
a basket. You cannot save yourself. There is only one way out. You get into the
basket or die. But your foot is caught in a fishing net. So, a diver jumps in,
cuts the net, and pushes you up into the basket. How much glory do you deserve?
Did you really save yourself because you were smarter than all the other
passengers?
2. Don’t be like Jonah’s whale and empty your stomach [vomit] when you hear, “Salvation is of the LORD.” Free Willy was a movie about a killer whale, and that might be a good name for Jonah’s sea creature. Hearing about the sovereignty of God made him ill, and up came the stomach contents. But those committed to free will theism are not carefully following the text of the Bible or reason. Your will is bound to your moral nature and is not an independent and free entity. Free will concepts are importing from Greek philosophy. Like Luther told Erasmus, if you have free will, choose to fly around this room and then do it. You cannot because your will is bound to the natural laws of gravity. It is not free to do whatever it wants.
E. (Application) Friend, have you repented of your sin against God and embraced Jesus the Messiah by faith? Do you deeply trust Him as the One who paid for all your sins in full? Have you taken up your cross to follow Him? Believer, could it be time to stop patting yourself on the back for how wise you were to become a Christian and start giving all the glory to God alone. Romans 8, if understood, will humble you. The Holy Spirit regenerates with no help from you. He gives the gifts of repentance and faith to people who were spiritually dead right after He gave them new life from above so that the gifts can be exercised. If you are saved, He first brought new life into your soul. You were born again by His power, not by yours. Like the wind, the Holy Spirit is not under your control or bound by a spiritually dead person’s decisions that are always controlled by their sin nature. They can choose apples over oranges but cannot choose God on their own (Calvin). They hate God and His moral law.
II. EVERY BELIEVER NEEDS TO KNOW THAT FALLEN HUMAN BEINGS ARE UNABLE TO SAVE THEMSELVES [Read vs. 3-12]
A. God saves His people partly by keeping the law for them. (3-4) The moral law must be kept. It reflects the holy nature of God. Any violation requires death.
1. The
work of God the Son: atonement, redemption, and propitiation (a wrath-bearing
sacrifice). (vs. 3)
* Jesus died in the place of His people and
also kept all aspects of the law for them as a substitute.
* Look at verse 3 “for what the Law could not do, [save rebellious sinners] weak as it was through the flesh, [people with a sin nature, the world system, and the demons are all against them, they don’t have a chance] God did: sending His own Son [Jesus lived a holy life in our place and died in our place] in the likeness of sinful flesh [God the Son looked like other humans because He being truly God also took on a true human nature] and as an offering for sin, [Jesus died in our place on the cross, the day of atonement] He condemned sin in the flesh” [Jesus bore our condemnation during His cross-work sufferings]
2. The work of God the Holy Spirit.
He is a person. He has a mind, will, and divine emotions; and He works, speaks,
and prays (vs.4)
[Forces like water or electricity cannot pray, speak, or think. He is a person, not a thing or an "it." The proper pronoun is "He."]
a. How is righteousness revealed to us?
By the moral law. Jesus fulfilled the ceremonial law---all the old covenant
worship regulations, diets, and Jewish separation rules. However, after His
resurrection and the day of Pentecost, the Apostles repeated the Ten
Commandments in the New Testament and applied them to both Gentile and Jewish
Christians (Rom 13:9-14, Eph 6:4). God still hates idolatry (1 Cor 10:14; 1 John
5:21). We still must keep the moral law. It is a duty and different from the
ceremonial and civil law of Israel. But we can only keep it with the help of
the Holy Spirit.
b. Of course, we do not keep it perfectly
like Jesus did, but our desire is to obey, our attempt to please our Holy God.
c. The believer delights in the holy law of God in the inner man, but they also struggle w/ indwelling sin. There is a full-blown war inside us.
d. 1 John 3:4 “Everyone who does sin also does lawlessness; Sin is
lawlessness.” The opposite is also true. Holiness is obedience to the moral
law. Holiness is lawfulness.
e. The
moral law is still in force, but the condemnation is gone for the
believer. It can only say, “Do this!”
B. There are two types of people in the world. (Read vs. 5-11)
1. Unconverted followers of the flesh. (5-8)
No ability, spiritually dead.
2. Converted followers of Christ, led by the
Holy Spirit. New ability, spiritually alive. (vs. 5-11) (Read 9-11)
C. There is evidence that shows that someone is not yet converted and on the broad road. (5-8)
1. The unconverted do not keep God’s moral
law. (Ten Commandments + other moral commands)
a.
No other gods; the Creator God gets the first place in your life.
b.
No idols, pictures, or images of any of the members of the Trinity. Don’t make
them, don’t use them.
c.
Don’t misuse God’s name.
d. Keep the Sabbath holy; work 6 days, give
God 1 day. Rest properly and corporately worship each week, which includes
learning the Bible, prayer, singing praise, and fellowship.
e.
Honor and respect parents and others in authority.
f.
Do not murder or hate other humans.
g.
Do not lust or commit adultery.
h.
Do not steal.
i.
Do not lie, falsely accuse, or swear to a lie in court (perjury).
j. Do not Covet─long for other people’s possessions,
positions, or relationships. Coveting is stealing from others in your heart.
This command alerts the reader that outward conformity is not enough.
k. Yes, there are some changes to the 4th and 5th commandments when they come into the New Covenant, but the basic principles remain. The unconverted break all of these and more.
2. The unconverted follow their sin nature.
They cannot help it. They are blind (Matt 15:14, 23:17), paralyzed (Rom 5:6), and
unable to obey (1 Cor 2:14).
3. They selfishly set their minds on
lawlessness. They seek their own glory. Pride rules.
4. Their minds think wickedly.
5. They are at war with God.
6. They are not able to be subject to God’s
law.
7. They do not have the Holy Spirit in them.
8. They are not spiritually alive.
9. They are under sin’s control. It is their master. It is their boss.
Do not love the world or the things that belong to the
world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in him.
For everything that belongs to the world─the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride in one’s lifestyle─is not from the Father, but is from the world. (1 Jn. 2:15-16 HCSB)
They went out from us, but they did not belong to us; for if they had belonged to us, they would have remained with us. However, they went out so that it might be made clear that none of them belongs to us. (1 Jn. 2:19 HCSB)
"Everyone who commits sin also breaks the law; sin is the breaking of law. You know that He was revealed so that He might take away sins, and there is no sin in Him. Everyone who remains in Him does not sin; everyone who sins has not seen Him or known Him. Little children, let no one deceive you! The one who does what is right is righteous, just as He is righteous. The one who commits sin is of the Devil, for the Devil has sinned from the beginning. The Son of God was revealed for this purpose: to destroy the Devil’s works. Everyone who has been born of God does not sin, because His seed remains in him; he is not able to sin, because he has been born of God. This is how God’s children─and the Devil’s children─are made evident. Whoever does not do what is right is not of God, especially the one who does not love his brother." (1 Jn. 3:4-10 HCSB)
D. There is evidence that displays that someone is converted and on the narrow road. (vs. 5-11)
1. They keep God’s moral law with the Holy
Spirit’s aid.
2. They set their minds on God’s truth.
3. They possess both everlasting life and
peace with God.
4. They gratefully seek to please God
because they love and revere Him.
5. They have the Holy Spirit indwelling within
them. (Evidenced by the fruit of the Holy Spirit)
6. They are spiritually alive and live for
the glory of God.
7. They mortify sin with the Holy Spirit’s help.
8. They are led by the Holy Spirit.
9. They suffer as Christ did from the world
system.
10. They reveal by their behavior and new desires that sin’s mastery is broken in their lives.
E. God’s elect must
obey Him. (vs. 12) (they are bankrupt debtors set free)
(ILL.) In
the OT Civil Law of Israel, a bondservant was to be set free after they had
served their appointed time. But after their contracted time was complete, if
they had a wonderful master and loved him, they could stay. They would go to
the door frame and have their ear pierced to symbolize that they are now a
totally voluntary slave of their wonderful master. They are free but remain, serve,
and obey the master. This is a picture for us.
F. (Argumentation)
Unbelievers cannot decide to save themselves any time they want to.
Paul writes, “But the unbeliever does not welcome what comes
from God’s Spirit, because it is foolishness to him; he is not able to
understand it since it is evaluated spiritually. The spiritual person,
however, can evaluate everything, yet he himself cannot be evaluated by anyone.”
(1 Cor. 2:14-15 HCSB) Not able, means unable, inability. Pagans are blind
(Matt 23:17) and paralyzed (Rom 5:6). The Holy Spirit must make the first move and
give new life to those who are spiritual corpses (Eph 2:1-4).
G. (Application) Jesus said, “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.” (John 14:15) He is the one who wrote the Ten Commandments twice with His own finger and handed the tablets to Moses. You do not mechanically and outwardly comply with the law in order to try to earn God’s favor. No. Out of love, awe, respect, honor, and gratitude, you show your love for God as you seek to glorify Him by obeying Him in your mind and body. He still hates stealing.
III. EVERY BELIEVER NEEDS TO KNOW ABOUT PUTTING SIN TO DEATH, THE HOLY SPIRIT, AND SUFFERING. [vs.13-17]
A. God’s elect must mortify their indwelling
sin. (vs. 13)
Do not pretend the sin is not there. Face it and daily put it to death. Fight it! Kill it! Like Samuel with Agag, hack it to pieces.
1. Who kills the sin? You do, but only by
the power of the Spirit.
2. What do you do? Kill it. This is
called mortification.
3. How? You daily repent of your sins, iniquities,
and rebellion. You daily take up the cross to put your selfishness to death and
follow Jesus instead.
4. The fight with sin is serious. Jesus
used hyperbole to illustrate it. Plucking out eyes, cutting off hands. I take
the sin that has been dear to me as my hand or eye, and I remove this sin from
my body. I flee some sins and stand strong against others.
5. Put to death indwelling sin is a present
tense command that shows ongoing action; it is not a onetime event and done.
6. Paul writes, “So, if you have been
raised with the Messiah, seek what is above, where the Messiah is, seated at
the right hand of God. Set your minds on what is above, not on what is on the
earth. For you have died, and your life is hidden with the Messiah in God. When
the Messiah, who is your life, is revealed, then you also will be revealed with
Him in glory. Therefore, put to death what belongs to your worldly nature:
sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desire, and greed, which is idolatry. Because
of these, God’s wrath comes on the disobedient, and you once walked in these
things when you were living in them. But now you must also put away all the
following: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and filthy language from your mouth. Do
not lie to one another, since you have put off the old self with its practices and
have put on the new self. You are being renewed in knowledge according to the
image of your Creator.” (Col. 3:1-10 HCSB)
7. You are at war; kill your enemy. Don’t
believe the lies of the dangerous doctrine of perfectionism or that you can
have some second work of grace that will put you above sin in this world. The
pretense that is required to maintain this false view is dangerous.
8. (ILL.) A lion escaped from the zoo. There is a man who reads about it in the paper while sitting in his chair. He thinks he is petting his dog while he reads the newspaper, but it is the lion he is petting. Because he is ignoring this beast, he is in danger. It eats meat, and that is what he is made of. When we pretend our indwelling sin is not really there, we are like a man reading the paper, petting the lion. Good doggy! Denial is not your friend! Face the enemy within. Starve it. Take up the sword of the Spirit, the word of God.
B. God’s
elect are all led by the Holy Spirit. [Here we have gentle control and willing
submission] (vs. 14)
1. A canoe
race requires two people working together to win. The guy in the bow cannot win
alone.
2. A
see-saw requires two people’s effort for it to work properly.
3. A 6-foot
crosscut tree saw requires two people to cut the large tree.
C. God’s
elect are adopted children. (vs. 15-16)
1.
Remember who you are.
2.
Remember Whose you are.
3. If
you are a child of God, you are identified with and in union with the Son of
God, Jesus the Messiah.
D. God’s
elect must suffer with Christ. (17) We are called to suffer. The world will not
accept your difference. [See the rest of Rom. 8]
E. (ILL) Killing indwelling sin is like
killing a cockroach or a mouse. If you go to bed and think, I got him, that is
done, there are no more, he was the last one. You are sadly mistaken. Every day
the war must go on.
F. (Application) Stay in the battle.
Use the spiritual armor of Eph. 6. Keep fighting, keep the enemy on the inside on the
run rather than gathering and gaining strength by your neglect. [Bunyan's book Man-Soul]
G. Do not be surprised by suffering. If the world and the demons are your enemies, they will attack and use humans to persecute you. We will learn more about suffering later in this chapter.
Conclusion
Today we have seen from this chapter:
I. Every Christian needs to know about the moral law, sinners, and salvation.
II. Every Christian needs to know that fallen human beings are unable to save themselves.
III. Every Christian needs to know about putting sin to death, the Spirit, and suffering.
(ILL) The army woke up to see a beautiful wooden horse outside the city gate of Troy. Maybe our enemy gave us this gift so we would make peace with them. They noticed it had wheels, so they pulled it through the gate inside the walls to show off its beauty. But now the enemy was inside the walls. When most guards were asleep and the ones near the horse walked their route to another part of the city, the enemy soldiers inside the horse snuck out. They opened the gate and let even more enemies in, and they started attacking the city. We too have an enemy that is inside our walls. It is remaining corruption, indwelling sin. Keep it weak and scattered.
(APPL) The word of God should be read,
studied, memorized, and meditated upon throughout the day. Prayer links us to
the power of God. Fellowship, encouragement, edification, and equipping by the
church body builds us up.
If you are a true believer, you are at
war. Kill sin, or it will kill you. Are you comfortable in this world? Are you
a real believer? Call on God. Ask Jesus to save you. Repent and trust Jesus and
the Bible, His Word. “Whoever calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” Do
it today!
Friday, April 10, 2026
Nehemiah 9 Study Notes
This chapter teaches us primarily about four things:
1.
The character of effective
prayer
2.
The character of the Bible
3.
The nature of humanity
4.
The nature of God
I.
Effective Prayer
What kind of prayer is included in
this chapter? Is it honest? (Yes.) What is the source of the content of this
prayer? (The Bible and Redemptive History.) Does this prayer include confession
and repentance? (Yes.) Does it include adoration of God? (Yes.) Does it include
thanksgiving? (Yes.) Does it include supplication (direct petitions for God to
act)? (No, it focuses on the actions of people–recommitment to the covenant.) Compare
this prayer to advertising, social media, or a resume. How often do you see an
accurate description of centuries of failure, rebellion, and lawbreaking in
these other resources? (Never.) This is not a press release, a myth, or a fairy
tale. This is what Alan Jackson sang about in the song, “Here in the Real
World.” Raw, unvarnished true truth is what we find in the Bible and what we
find in effective prayer. Confession of sin requires honesty and not
mislabeling or downplaying how harmful the sin and rebellion was. This is a
corporate public prayer by the spiritual leaders of the assembly.
II.
The Bible
Nehemiah uses a number of terms to
describe sections of the Bible.
·
Upright judgments (mishpatim)
Civil laws [vs. 13]
·
True Laws (torah)
moral instructions that can be taught with a story as well as direct
commandment (e.g. Noah, Lot, Nadab, Abihu–consequences of drunkenness) [vs. 13]
·
Good statutes (ḥōq) purity regulations
and worship rules {Ceremonial law} [vs. 13]. See the end of Leviticus 26.
·
Commandments (mitsvah)
moral laws which include the Ten Commandments [vs. 13]
·
Holy Sabbath (shabbat)
The 7th day, Friday 6pm to Saturday 6pm, a day of rest and worship,
but the command also required work on the other 6 days [vs.14]
·
God commanded (verb) commandments
(mitsvah), statutes (ḥōq),
law (torah). Using these three terms together is for all the
content of the first four books of the Bible written by Moses. [vs. 14]
·
Testimonies (edut)
technical term for the Ten Commandments
Nehemiah believed the Bible made clear how a person could
please God. He believed its witness that Yahweh created the universe in seven
days. He believed all the prophets’ descriptions of the behavior of the people.
The Bible is a reliable source of truth in a world of falsehoods and errors. Good
leaders, such as Nehemiah and Jesus, trust the Bible.
III.
The Nature of Humanity
A. Compromising
with pagans, sinning (intentional and unintentional), committing iniquities (directly
violating commandments)
B. Act
presumptuously (rebelliously proud), stiff-necked, refusing to listen,
forgetting God’s wondrous deeds
C. Idol
makers, blasphemers, disobedient, rebellious, throwing God’s word away, murdering
God’s prophets, returning to do evil, sinning against civil laws
D. Stubborn
shoulder and stiff-necked (rebellious), acting wickedly, not following biblical
instruction, not paying attention to moral laws, especially the Ten Words
E. Not
serving Yahweh (obeying, following, worshipping), not repenting of their evil
deeds (U-turn)
IV.
The Nature of God–W. Wiersbe,
commentary, Chapter 9: “Amazing Grace”
A. The
Greatness of God vs. 1-6 (W. 120-123)
1. He receives our worship
2. He is
God alone
3. He
created the universe
4. He
providentially cares for His creation
5. The angels
of heaven worship Him
B. The
Goodness of God vs. 7-30 (W. 123-127)
1) Forming
the nation of Israel
2) Leading
the nation of Israel
3) Discipling
the nation of Israel
C. The
Grace of God vs. 31-38 (W. 127-129)
1) Abundant
compassion (raḥamim)
[noun] Only used 39 times (1Kgs 3:26), often used as kindness, favor, mercy, or
merciful love, once for a mother’s love for a baby [vs. 19, 27, 28, 31]
2) Gracious
(ḥannun) [adj.]
Used only 13 times but related to the noun in Gen 6:8 (ḥan) “Noah found grace
in the eyes of Yahweh”
3) Compassionate
(raḥum) [adj.]
Used only in 13 verses
4) Keeps
covenant (berit) [noun] faithful no matter what [used in 265 verses]
5) Lovingkindness
(ḥesed) [noun]
faithful love, covenant love, volitional gracious kindness [used in 239 verses]

